Friday, February 20, 2009

Recreate your Love life.

I never been in a real moment of love before..Even if i had , guys just treat me as their toys.Not serious , not to be frank and no heart of desire to be my Mr Right.
So, if you think your are pimply, moody, overweight and not so flirtatious enough.dont get over it yet!I bet those people who fall into these categories are totally being true to themselves.If the guy cant accept these types of physical flaws in you, -then he's a jerk and doesnt deserve your attention right?

Do not feel sorry for yourselves.Lipstick, plucked eyebrows, winning smiles and positive vibes , smooth legs, and small skirts - these things have a lot to do with finding true love. Girl who insists on wearing a well-ignored , ugly duckling persona just to prove a point have no idea what they are missing. A girl outward identity is the only visual clue us blokes have about the inner identity.In your outward identity looks good,too.It is not the skirt or the flirt that interests us , but what the skirt and the flirt means.

If you take care to look good, to be courteous , to smile and to be sincere then that reflects the confident , compasionate girl you are on the inside.And that's the kind of girl a man could fall in love with.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

The Love of Titanic and Ms.Rose Bukater

Titanic is the most popular historical sinking ship in world .It had brought into the golden screen 11 years ago. That time I was still 10 years old. I absolutely no nothing what correlates between the movie and background story of the Titanic itself.The powerful romance between Rose and Jack Dawson really amazed me. The journey of the ship brought they love life together .Born with happiness and gradually reduce with a tragic unfortunate events. The sinking of the ship really portrays how the love story ends in such way. This is where Director James Cameron is trying to adapt from the history itself.
For those who forgot about this remarkable love story, you guys have to watch it again because this how the War of Love starts.In my opinion, the story line is much better than the Shakespeare work "Romeo and Juliet"..

Monday, February 16, 2009

Being Single..

Most of us, including me, would like to enter into another (or first) meaningful relationship. The key word here is meaningful. We need to be comfortable with who we are, and with being alone, before we go searching for a partner in life.

Before we start a meaningful relationship, we have to learn to like ourselves. Until we can do that, we wouldn't be able to love someone else. If we want real love, then we need to have enough self confidence, and self respect to unconditionally accept the other person for who they are. That doesn't mean we have to be conceited, just that we respect, and trust ourselves, while accepting the fact that we aren't perfect. A side benefit to this is that we will be more relaxed, and comfortable around other people, and so are more likely to attract members of the opposite sex.

Being alone is not necessary a bad thing. The general consensus seems to be that if we are alone, we must be lonely, but the two are not the same thing. If you are divorced, separated, or have ended a good relationship, then think back, weren't there times that you wished you where single, because the relationship was preventing you from doing some of the things you want to do. Now's your chance to do them. Whatever it is that you felt your relationship was stopping you from doing, you are free to do now. There's nothing stopping you. Sure, you may have financial obligations, and maybe children to consider, but the point is, while we are single we might as well take advantage of it, and learn to be comfortable with it.

If we can be comfortable with being alone, and with who we are, the next section will probably take care of itself, but I'll touch on it anyway. We have to be careful not to search too desperately for love, but instead we should just be open to it. Don't fall in love with being in love! Let's enjoy being single. We can go on dates, make new friends, and just go out, and have a good time, without expecting everyone we meet to fall in love with us, or even want to date us. Accept people for who they are, and just enjoy their company. Eventually we'll meet that someone special.

It's especially tempting after a breakup to go out and find someone else to love. That's like getting a new puppy to replace the one that got ran over by a truck. Don't do it! If friendship develops into something more, that's great, but be careful not to use someone to fill the emptiness you might feel now. That type of relationship is almost guaranteed to fail.

It may seem like I'm saying that we should avoid relationships altogether. That's not the case, what I'm trying to say is that, we need to be content with ourselves so that we avoid getting into a relationship that's based on something other than love.

OK, now that we've accomplished that, how do we go about finding the perfect match? Where can we find this person? The usual advice seems to be at malls, libraries, bars, and any other place that has a lot of people. Unfortunately even if our perfect match is at these places when we are, odds are against us meeting them. Instead take dance classes, join a club, take a course, or just about anything that you might be interested in, as long as it includes other people. Put yourself in a situation that's going to enable you to meet people with similar interests, and at the very least you'll make some new friends. Don't do these things with the sole intention of finding someone to fall in love with, instead use it as an opportunity to have some fun, and make new friends.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Happy 21st Birthday to me!

its 13 Feb!
I'm turning 21 this year..i feel old now..old but young at heart..huhu.
Thank you for the wish you guys! I really appreciate it..
21! good number, a proper age to get way I'm not ready! yurp , legally to go clubbing and perform any other adultery stuff..well, it just what everybody said, but I'm a good girl, i wont fall into those ..promise..winnkk~~ :

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Theatre Meeting..

Right now we doesn't have enough budget to bought the stuff for the props..Me and Ika are trying our best to get the props done before March...Our Mr Director want us to decorate the hall so that the school stud's would have the feeling or mood to watch the performance. This is because ,the upper secondary use to think that " the pearl"
is boring novel, well and think u guys have to watch it so that u are enable to understand it more and yes to score the TRipple one NIne PAper..=)

Important Props For "The Pearl"

1 ) The pearl
2 ) The oysters
3 ) Brush Huts
4 ) Coconut trees
5 ) Canoe
6 ) Net for oyster hunting

and the list go on..

My troops get back to work now!!

20/25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about Ms Jahirah..

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 20/25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 20/25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you.

1 ) i am a simple girl...some of u know my background,some of you dont,but i would
really say that i am not a rich spoiled father might be a wealthy guy,but for me,its his hard
work..therefore,nothing belongs to me..i am just his daughter...and he is just pampering me....

2) i wake up at 6 am daily.then sleep again at 7am.........hehe

3) i love dancing since 1 was 10..i always dance for the national day program, once for SUKOM 1998 and SEA GAMES 2001..

4) I haven't got my driving license sad huh?

5) i love to cook....I always make my own "bites" if my mom is working.some of my speciality - nasi goreng tom yam , AYam black paper with potatoes and chicken salad with boiled eggs or mix it with crab meat.

6) i love cycling...........i cycle almost everyday during my free time at home..1-2 hours.=)

7) i love to look at babies..

8) My mom is my best friend in the world, we argue a lot but she's my besties forever!!........ =)

9) i dont like religious fanatics....i am a spiritual girl,who believe and respect all the religion...for me,all
teachings are true,and have the same goal - do good,be good,and believe in God.....

10) i'm into adolescents issued such as drugs,sexual harassment ,
OO yeah.. i love when Oprah discussed about these kind of issue..never miss to watch..=)

11) i fell in love when i was 17 years old...puppy love...that guy already married lor..huahua..=(

12) i am single and still searching for a prince to swept off my feet......... =)

13) i am pessimist sometimes.........

14) I love listen to Movie soundtracks...

15) i am tyring avoid processed food...

16) i love to sing alone inside my room..

17) i love Spicy food...!...

18) my most favourite artist would be JT...............

19) my favourite food would be any food that been cooked by my mom..

20) i love to collect key chains and cards..=)

21) i always think about people whom i care...everyone around me,and those who left a significant
trail in my life....i will always cherish them in my heart..........

22) I love all my friends and those who can accept me as their friends too..=)

23) I giggle a lot..hahha..try to change this but i couldn't!

24) since i am the youngest one in my family , i'm just being that lil' kid and have to listen every word what my parents said.

25) right now,the most important in my life is to get the scroll of my life!! Graduate year 2010!!